Regular readers can probably skip this post. After four years and over 400 posts, most of you know who I am (well…kinda), what I write, and what you can expect to find here.
If you’re visiting my blog for the first time, that probably means you’ve just read my debut piece for Metro.co.uk. All you know about me at this point is that I love it when women sit on my face, and while that’s a decent start, it might be worth putting a bit of meat on those bare bones.
Ok, here we go.
I’m 36 years old, and live in South London with my fiancée, Livvy, and two cats. I’m a full-time management consultant, part-time sex writer, and occasional author of short erotic fiction. I started this blog because I needed somewhere to pour out and process all my thoughts and feelings about the sex I was having, the sex I wanted to have, and the sex I was only just beginning to fantasise about.
Why Exhibit A? Because it’s not just thoughts and feelings that I choose to share here. I like getting my kit off for the camera, and I like it even more when other people enjoy the resulting photos. That exhibitionist streak carried me head-first (so to speak) into a wonderful community of erotic photographers, via Molly Moore’s Sinful Sunday project, and I’ve never looked back.
So where should you go first? Well if you want to know more about me as a person, you can check out the Q&A posts I did to mark a couple of blogging anniversaries. Start with the most recent one, and work your way backwards from there. After that, you could dive into some of the personal things I’ve written about relationships, both with other people, and with my own body and sexuality. You’ll find most of those via the ‘Top Posts’ tab on the header menu. Numbers 2, 3, 10, 11, 12 and 14 should be enough for now. Maybe try these for good measure:
If you want to read some of my fiction, the ‘Erotica’ menu tab will take you to a list of everything I’ve written and posted. Some stories are better than others, but I guess your own kinks and preferences will probably have a bearing one which you enjoy most. These are a few of my favourites:
For photos, you could go straight to the #dickpics tab, where I’d definitely advise kicking off with some of the later stuff – maybe the posts I did for February Photo Fest, or some of the Sinful Sunday shots from 2016-17. If you want to go back a bit further, I think this, this, and this are all pretty decent.
However, if it’s more suggestive or softcore photography you’re after, there’s plenty of that to check out too. Some of these were taken by other people, some involved a timer and clever use of props, but here are half-a-dozen of the ones I like best:
Of course, you may just be looking for more of what brought you here. More essays on what guys think about sex. More enthusiasm for women’s bodies and female pleasure. At this point, I should probably just tell you to wait for my next Metro article, but delayed gratification is only good in small doses, and there’s no guarantee they’ll want me back after today anyway. Here then are five posts you might find interesting, or thought-provoking, or even just plain hot:
…or you might hate each and every one of them. Either way, feel free to hit me up on Twitter or via the comments section, and tell me what you think.
Thanks for reading.