12 Things That Feel As Good As Rimming

Late last night, a Twitter friend sent me this WhatsApp message:

First things first, it’s a great question! Done right, rimming feels spectacular – intense, intimate, and laser-focused on an area of the body absolutely full of nerve endings. It sets a pretty high bar!

Finding a specific physical sensation that feels equally good isn’t easy. But after mulling it over this afternoon – both with and without my hand on my cock – I’ve come up with 12 things that give me that same instant dopamine hit. My list certainly isn’t universal – it’s my list – and it’s not exhaustive either, but thinking about each and every one of the activities or sensations on it made me drift off momentarily into a semi-meditative state of pure horn.

To everyone reading this, I’d love to know how you’d answer my friend’s question, or whether there’s any crossover between your various lists and mine. For now though, I might have to go lie down for a bit…

1. Nails dragged lazily over my lower back and up towards my shoulders. Your hand curling round my neck to pull me in for a kiss.
2. The moment when you’re working a toy into my arse and it pushes past that last point of resistance, then slides smoothly inside, making me gasp at the sudden depth.
3. The warmth, softness and familiarity of burying my face in your neck, under your hair, and inhaling deeply as you wriggle and squirm.
4. When I graze your lips with mine in just the right way, so they barely brush over each other, but just that slightest touch is enough to induce shivers.
5. Having my thighs squeezed appreciatively as you kneel between my legs and smirk at the sight of my hard cock bobbing in front of your face. Feeling your fingertips flex and dig into bunched muscle is almost as satisfying as the first swipe of your tongue over the tip.
6. Realising just as we’re about to fuck that you’re so horny, so damn ready for it, but only figuring out *how* damn ready when I run the head of my cock between your labia and it emerges slick and shiny-wet; that barely audible squelch is one of the sexiest things ever.
7. Having my hair ruffled, stroked, and generally played with. Bonus points if we’re naked at the time – or we’re fully-clothed and somewhere public, so it feels like clandestine foreplay.
8. Feeling my cock press semi-erect and sensitive against the inside of my trousers, till I have to tense my thighs and work hard to stop my hips thrusting involuntarily. Feeling it press other places too, like your arse as we spoon in the morning, or between our bodies when we’re rolling around together.
9. When you circle your thumb and a couple of fingers around the base of my cock and squeeze just enough to make the head swell with trapped blood – this is also the perfect time to suck it, just FYI, or to move that tight ring slowly up the shaft, stopping at the coronal ridge and making me beg for more.
10. Edging at your command. Forcing myself to stop while I’m fucking you, then looking down to see you grinning with delight at how much I’m struggling to maintain some semblance of self-control. The shivery, full-body pleasure of it.
11. Idle groping. Your hand on my arse. A quick tug at my cock, or maybe you just cup it with your fingers and run your thumb over the head. Pre-sex, it triggers a little shudder of anticipation. Post-sex, it’s affectionate and possessive in the best way.
12. I know it’s obvious, but… Deep penetration. More specifically, your legs wrapped round my waist, pulling me all the way inside, or your nails in my butt cheeks holding me there so all I can do is grind into you. Hands and mouths feel great, and I love anal, but for physical pleasure nothing beats a tight, wet cunt clenching along the length of my cock.